and the verdict is..

compromise! =)) his bangs are WAY shorter than they have EVER been.  which is a big deal for me =( but it gives him an idea of what it would be like above his eyes.. i dont hate it and he says he loves it.   BUT he did ask me this morning how long it will take to grow out enough to put it behind his ear again. =)  mission accomplished!!  i dont think he will be asking for a haircut like daddys again anytime soon!